Could it be that we are afraid of grace? Absolutely. Because real grace will probably cause one to change. In other words, most of us would love to receive grace but hang on to patterns or things that sometimes cause us to cry out for grace. Grace is an infusion of goodness, but not a complimentary additive to add to our inventory of resources. For real goodness (or grace) to make sense it would have to do demolition to things in us that are not so good.