The Dowager Countess Violet Grantham asked this compelling question in her meanderings around the Downton Abbey (PBS TV show) realm. On the other hand, the O'Jay's (70's R&B group)sang "Living for the Weekend." We all have our perspective. Some perspectives get us thru, while others can be jailkeepers. A fancy name for "perspective" is "weltanschauung," in short, "the lens we see the world thru." Which perspective is best? Probably NOT the perspective that causes one to have a heavy-handed attitude about their perspective.