Getting hurt is a big part of this life thing. Sometimes, the little 'diss-es" can be as caustic and damaging as the "Tsunami" ones. The "hurt" experience can really leave some major scar tissue…kind of like an inner version of a full-body tattoo that turned on itself. But there is another powerful experience that can not only off-set the toxicity of invasive hurt, but even begin turning hurt into a "ripped," dynamic, robust feeling. It's called the "forgiveness" factor. It doesn't matter how deep and numerous or sinister the "hurt," forgiveness can "super-size" a healing and a liberation unmatched by any other prescription. Throwing that emotional energy into forgiveness is the real "secret" and the best gift a person can give themselves.